You can be a woman and be oppressive to women. You can be homosexual and be oppressive to other gay people. You can be a person of color and be oppressive to other people of color. We have a term for this. It’s called internalization. You are conditioned to think certain things about yourself, your gender, your sexuality, your skin tone. This is all part of a MUCH bigger problem, however, that doesn’t fucking excuse you from saying horrible shit to people who are already oppressed. It doesn’t excuse you from oppressing people in a group YOU ARE APART OF. You need to take responsibility for that shit. OWN IT. Realize that you have internalized some dangerous, noxious, seething bullshit, and that you have to push all that out of you. Become a better person. It’s hard, but it’s not impossible. Be a goddamn human being for one fucking second, instead of the complete asshole that society has conditioned you to be. Thanks.